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Episode 079 - Journey Through Masculinity and Spirituality

Season 2, Ep. 25
Journey Through Masculinity and Spirituality


Join us for a profound journey with our guest Nico Lagan, a man of many talents hailing from Athens, Alabama. Our discussion takes an enlightening turn as we navigate the intricate relationship between faith and masculinity, with Nico bringing his unique perspective as a men's coach, public speaker, author, and more. We unpack the essence of courage and faith in shaping a good man and confront the challenges that life throws our way, including personal battles with depression, the quest for purpose during a midlife crisis, and the universal struggle to find meaning in adversity.


Listen in as I candidly share the story of my leap into entrepreneurship, guided by divine intervention during a financially trying time. This episode is a testament to the power of small beginnings, offering free services to build credibility and the profound impact of faith in trusting the journey ahead. Whether you're seeking purpose or need reassurance that your unique gifts are meant for a greater cause, this conversation sheds light on the idea that understanding God's plan may not always be clear, but faith assures us we're on the right path.


Wrap up this episode with a heartwarming exchange about the transformative potential of psychedelics, the importance of vulnerability in personal growth, and the strength found in bonds forged through open, meaningful dialogues. As Nico and I explore the notion of life as a series of divine lessons, we touch upon surrendering control and embracing the unknown with patience and faith. Whether you're curious about the intersection of science and religion, the balance of logic and faith, or the life-changing insights from plant medicines like psilocybin and ayahuasca, this conversation is a beacon of hope and an invitation to consider love as the ultimate force in nature.


(0:00:01) - Overcoming Depression and Finding Faith

Nico Lagan shares insights on faith, masculinity, and purpose while discussing personal challenges and the importance of courage and family.


(0:14:56) - Navigating Faith and Purpose in Life

Faith and entrepreneurship, leveraging skills for a new business venture, trusting the process and purpose, and understanding God's plan.


(0:30:59) - The Power of Faith and Surrender

Nature's plan uses pain as a teacher, requiring faith and patience, and redirecting paths through questions and acceptance of lack of control.


(0:38:55) - Finding Purpose and Accountability in Life

Personal transformation, faith, forgiveness, questioning, and the roles of science and religion in understanding our world.


(0:52:02) - Exploring Purpose, Success, and Psychedelics

Success often comes with age and wisdom, shaped by life's trials and spiritual growth, including the impact of faith and altered states.


(1:01:18) - Experiences With Psychedelics and Spiritual Connections

Psychedelics as plant medicine for transformative experiences, connecting with the divine, and the power of love.


(1:11:12) - Email Exchange About Availability and Appreciation

Gratitude, vulnerability, and commitment are emphasized as Nico and his guest discuss personal growth and the power of profound conversations.


To learn more about Nico Lagan, please visit: https://nicolagan.com/

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