The Things Left Unsaid Podcast

In this episode of The Things Left Unsaid Podcast, we sit with a conversation many of us live every day but rarely name, Black Tax. The quiet expectation. The unspoken responsibility. The “you have it now, so you must help” narrative that follows success, survival, and even small wins.We unpack what Black Tax actually means within the Nigerian context, exploring how culture, family dynamics, and socioeconomic realities shape it. We talk about how millennials often carry it as a duty, while Gen Z increasingly questions it, and why that generational tension keeps showing up at home, in relationships, and within ourselves.This episode dives into the emotional, financial, and social impact of being taxed by love, the guilt, the pressure, the burnout, and the fear of saying no, especially when the expectation comes from parents or family. We also challenge the idea that setting boundaries automatically means being selfish or ungrateful.More importantly, we talk about how to navigate Black Tax without losing yourself: honest conversations, redefining support, setting sustainable limits, and finding balance between empathy and self-preservation. Not from a place of rebellion, but from a place of awareness.This isn’t an attack on family.It’s a conversation about choice, capacity, and survival.Because some bills aren’t financial, they’re emotional. And they’ve been left unsaid for far too long.

In this episode of The Things Left Unsaid Podcast, we’re officially back and no, we didn’t just disappear for vibes. After a long break that quietly marked the end of a season and the close of 2024, we’re unpacking why we went silent, what that pause meant, and how life really life-d us during that time. We talk about wrapping up the last season, why 2025 looked very different for each of us (including being completely offline), and how growth sometimes looks like absence.We also introduce the new co-host of the podcast (finally 👀), share our individual journeys through 2025, and get honest about how much changed behind the scenes. From lessons learned, to expectations unlearned, to redefining what this podcast even means to us now; nothing is rushed, everything is intentional.We close the episode with our hopes for 2026 and the future of The Things Left Unsaid: what we’re building, how we want it to feel, and why this comeback isn’t loud, but very deliberate. This isn’t a rebrand, it’s a reset. And you’re right on time.

In this week's episode of The Things Left Unsaid, we're getting real about money—no sugarcoating, no pretenses. I’m joined by a special guest as we dive into what it truly means to be financially comfortable in today’s world. Spoiler alert: it's not about having a private jet or owning a bunch of businesses. It’s about making sure the basics are covered, enjoying your favorite meal, paying bills without sweating, and making sure your kids are set up for success. We'll laugh about the moments we thought we needed more and explore scenarios we all relate to, like that moment you realize you don’t need to "be the richest"—you just need to live in peace. This episode is your reminder that comfort is a vibe, and we’re all just trying to vibe.

This week, Kola is flying solo, getting real about something we all feel but rarely admit: most of us have no idea what we’re doing with our lives, and that's perfectly okay! In this episode, Kola breaks down the pressure to have it all figured out, how overthinking leads to confusion, and why it’s time to stop stressing. With humor, honesty, and a whole lot of relatability, he dives into why it's better to embrace the unknown and just go with the flow. If you’ve been feeling lost lately, this one's for you!

This week, Kola sits down with Reign to explore the hidden power of silence and the impact of intentional speech on the Podcast. In a world where everyone’s competing to be heard, we forget that sometimes saying less can bring us more—more clarity, more growth, and more meaningful connections. Kola and Reign dive deep into why silence is a forgotten art and how using your words wisely can open doors or shut them forever. They share personal stories, real-world examples, and practical tips on embracing quiet and mastering mindful communication. Tune in to discover how holding back can actually push you forward and why silence just might be your strongest asset.

This week, Kola is joined by Soonshee for a deep, yet fun conversation about self-growth and all the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. They dive into the lessons learned, the struggles faced, and the moments that made them stronger. From learning to set boundaries to embracing the messy journey of life, this episode is packed with real talk, humor, and some serious wisdom. Whether you're reflecting on your past or looking to grow in the future, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even get a little emotional as Kola and Soonshee share their journeys of self-growth.

Hey fam! We know we’ve missed a couple of Fridays, so here’s a little midweek treat to make up for it! This episode is totally unplanned and off the cuff, featuring a raw and real convo with our regular guest, Tofunmi. We started with some good vibes, talking about gratitude and appreciating what’s going well, but then things got real—fast. We touched on handling bad situations, dealing with toxic friendships, and why some people are just naturally wicked. Tune in, kick back, and enjoy this midweek bonus—because you deserve it!

What’s up, fam? This week, Kola links up with The Early Momo Rant for a collab that’s all about finding peace when life’s throwing all kinds of chaos your way. Whether it’s stress, drama, or just the craziness of life, we’re talking about how to stay chill and keep your vibes high. We’ll drop some real tips on everything from mindfulness to setting boundaries, and of course, a little gratitude to keep things in perspective. Tune in and get ready to find your calm in the middle of the storm—it’s about to get real!

This week, Kola sits down with Bayo to tackle a topic many of us can relate to: the burden of one-sided friendships and relationships. They dive into the emotional toll of investing in connections where the effort isn’t mutual, and discuss how to recognize when it's time to let go. Whether it's with friends, partners, or even family, one-sided relationships can be draining. Tune in for the honest conversation about how to navigate these situations, set boundaries, and seek more balanced, fulfilling connections.