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S1 Ep3: Surrogacy myths and misconceptions

Season 1, Ep. 3

Episode 3: Surrogacy Myths and Misconceptions

Guests: Melissa Hallam- UK Surrogate


Welcome to The Surrogate Podcast. The first UK podcast dedicated to hearing the voices and perspectives of surrogates and exploring the journey of surrogacy from our perspective.

 

Welcome to Episode 3 of The Surrogate Podcast. We are really pleased to have you with us. Today we are going to be exploring some of the myths and misconceptions that arise in surrogacy. In episode 1 and 2 we hosted some fantastic conversations which explored what is a surrogate and how to become a surrogate and today we are digging a little deeper and looking at some of the ways that surrogacy is perceived and some of the ideas that people may have about surrogacy and surrogates.

 

Hosts

Kay King – My Surrogacy Journey Foundation Director and a UK surrogate, currently unmatched after a year of fertility treatment to support a set of Intended Parents.


Hayley Aldis- a 2 x Gestational Surrogate, and Surrogate Coordinator for My Surrogacy Journey.


Our Season 1 Sponsor


Season 1 of The Surrogacy Podcast is sponsored by The Mindful Birth Group®. Their award-winning Mindful Natal® courses are endorsed by midwives and fully inclusive of all paths to parenthood. When anyone signs up to a Mindful Natal® course, they can be sure that they will be equipped for all aspects of pregnancy, birth and postnatal recovery for their own unique journey. For more information on their brilliant services head to their website which is www.themindfulbirthgroup.com and follow them on Instagram and TikTok by simply searching The Mindful Birth Group.


My Surrogacy Journey


If this episode touched you and you want to find out more about My Surrogacy Journey and our completely unique surrogate membership, then please head over to our website www.mysurrogacyjourney.com or find us on Instagram @officialmysurrogacyjourney.

Available wherever you get your podcasts. The Surrogate Podcast is a Talulah and The Duke Production and is recorded in our studio in the Mailbox Birmingham. Please contact My Surrogacy Journey to enquire about hiring our studio

 

Sound Engineer: Steven Adkins

Sound Producer: Steve Randall

 

 

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