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Real Reason Why Couples Break Up | Learn How to Avoid It

Season 1, Ep. 37

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Many high-achieving professionals believe they’ve “outgrown” their partner… but what if that feeling is misleading? In this powerful episode, we break down why the desire to leave a relationship often stems from unaddressed internal patterns, not incompatibility.


👉 What happens when you ignore the signs

👉 Why the answer isn’t simple - and why that’s a good thing

👉 The risk of repeating the same relationship problems in your next one


If you’re considering a breakup or feeling disconnected from your partner, this episode could change everything.


Timecodes:

0:00 - Intro

1:06 - Reason behind it

3:49 - What will happen if you ignore the problem?

7:23 - It won't be a simple answer

13:46 - What happens if you think that you’ve outgrown your partner?


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