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The Subspace Exploration Project
Authority Dynamics and Personal Journeys w/ TammyJo Eckhart
Season 1, Ep. 8
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In this episode of the Subspace Exploration Project Todd & Clay talked with Ancient Historian, Educator, & Erotica Author TammyJo Eckhart. TammyJo walks us through her journey of studying and experiencing kink, polyamory, and authority dynamics. TammyJo explains some of the challenges of being part of these communities and offers advice on how to make sure to take of you and your partners’ needs.
Episode Page: https://www.subspaceexploration.com/subspacepod/tammyjo-eckhart-authority
TammyJo Eckhart’s Website: https://www.tammyjoeckhart.com/
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