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A childhood consumed by abuse, an adulthood transformed by self-compassion

Ep. 10

Content warning: Themes of sexual assault


Violet's earliest childhood memory is of being abused. She was prostituted by her mother from a young age, then "bought" by her grandfather to suffer yet more.

At some point, she turned the page, and started writing her own story. She now has an organisation that supports others who have suffered.

This is a heartbreakingly honest story, from a woman who has found hope where we might assume there was none to be found. As Violet says, "As long as you are breathing, there is hope".


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https://coloryourstoryontomine.com/

https://www.facebook.com/newbornviolet

https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088317495635


"Transforming pain into compassion is the alchemy of the soul, where wounds become wisdom and empathy blooms from the depths of our own suffering."

- Violet Newborn.

 

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