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What to Do if You Fall Out of Love with Your Business As An Owner with Paige Easter

Ep. 73
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Do you feel like you've fallen out of love with your business? Discover valuable insights and practical tips on how to reignite the passion in your business and create a sustainable and fulfilling relationship.


In this episode of The Shift to Freedom podcast, hosts Paige and Ben Easter dive into the topic of falling in and out of love with your business. They explore the importance of having a strong relationship with your business, so it can provide the freedom you desire. Paige and Ben discuss the signs that indicate you may be falling out of love with your business, how beliefs about business being a grind can affect your relationship, and the importance of managing emotions and staying aligned. Tune in for valuable insights on maintaining a healthy and fulfilling connection with your business.


Key Moments:

  • [00:00:01] Introduction to the episode and the importance of having a great relationship with your business.
  • [00:01:59] Recognizing when you're falling out of love with your business and the impact of fear on your relationship.
  • [00:04:20] Signs that indicate you may be experiencing an unresourceful relationship with your business, such as overwhelm and resentment.
  • [00:05:44] How the belief that business is a constant struggle or a constant state of bliss can affect your relationship with your business.
  • [00:07:05] The analogy of pushing a swing when starting a business and the importance of managing expectations.
  • [00:10:20] Tips for navigating the ups and downs of business ownership, including self-awareness and self-compassion.
  • [00:13:48] The role of alignment and finding joy in your work to maintain a healthy relationship with your business.


Links:

Business Owner Hero Type Quiz: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/quiz/

The Mindset Gym: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/the-mindset-gym

Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi- https://www.amazon.com/Flow-Psychology-Experience-Perennial-Classics/dp/0061339202

Gay Hendricks (Genius Zone) - https://hendricks.com/

Ikigai - https://becomingbetter.org/ikigai/


Connect with Ben and Paige:

Website: https://lucidshiftcoaching.com/

Lucid Shift Coaching IG: https://www.instagram.com/lucid_shift_coaching/

Project Candlelight: https://airtable.com/shr5p0P2793RtRk2k


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