Sex Confessions

Madelene is the founder of Nocturnal, a members-only community based in Melbourne that hosts some of Australia’s most high-end sex parties and events. She grew up with a curiosity for the erotic, but never felt like the sex culture around her reflected the aesthetics she was drawn to. So, she created her own erotic fantasy land — and invited others into it with her. If you’ve ever wondered what really goes on at a bougie sex party, or been curious about joining a community like this, this episode is for you.Find more about Nocturnal and how to become a member: https://www.nocturnalcreatures.comFollow Madelene on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madelenekadziela/

Matilda found herself overseas, surrounded by gorgeous Black men, and realised she’d never slept with one before. Being sexually curious and confident, she decided that was about to change. Fast forward 24 hours and she’s being invited into the back room of a sexy club by — guess who? — a beautiful Black man! Manifestation! When he asked if he could bring someone else along, she was into it. What she didn’t realise was that the other man was his nephew. We unpack how it all unfolded, and how the men being related to each other was a surprising turn on.

Josh is tall, successful and emotionally intelligent. He writes down his feelings. He asks questions. On paper, he’s exactly the kind of man women say they want but he’s still struggling to date. So, is the modern dating economy actually working against men? We unpack why men are increasingly afraid to approach women in the wild, what women actually want from them, and how men can make women feel safe enough to let them in.

Isabella had been happily married to her high school sweetheart for 15 years when they decided to start exploring. Soon, she was living out a lifelong fantasy: a foursome with three men — one being her husband. It was one of the most empowering experiences of her life. We unpack the liberating and perhaps unexpected power that comes with being worshipped by multiple men at once.You can follow Isabella on Instagram here. You can read her writing on Substack here.

What would you do if your boyfriend cheated on you with your gay best friend?

This week, host Laura reflects on growing up in a Catholic family and the first time she realised sex outside of a relationship didn’t have to carry shame.

Lady Kay was the minister of a Pentecostal church in Nigeria. Then her hot male friend dicked her down on holiday. In public. You can find Lady Kay’s socials here and her Patreon here.

Hannah got a DM from a stranger. $4k for a kick to the balls. She was intrigued.You can follow Hannah on Instagram here.

James swore he was straight. Then he got paid to be penetrated and it changed him for good. You can follow James on Instagram here. You can book him here.