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Kari Robbed Manhattan’s Elite, Then Had a Lesbian Awakening in Prison

Season 1, Ep. 4

When Kari moved to New York broke and hungry for belonging, she found herself in the beds of Manhattan’s richest men, seducing them by night and robbing them by morning. As they fetishised her for her Asian identity, her theft escalated… Until she got caught.


In this episode, she unpacks sex, power, crime and the lesbian awakening she found behind bars.


Check out Kari’s memoir for more stories than we could fit in the podcast: You'll Never Believe Me: A Life of Lies, Second Tries, and Things I Should Only Tell My Therapist

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