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Café Femme

He's just not that into you with Bryony Bower

The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, I talk to Bryony Bower. We're going through Reddit again! Listen to hear the advice we give some strangers. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.com

A podcast hosted by Ella Hodson all about feminism, current affairs, films, music, philosophy... basically... everything. Enjoy!

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  • Deep in Thot with Låpsley

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    Welcome back to Café Femme! This week I chat to Låpsley aka my friend Holly about my attempt at celibacy, how deeply we feel about music, and our very similar outlook on class. Enjoy! Sources used: https://www.google.com/search?q=is+being+celibate+a+feminist+act&rlz=1C5GCCM_en&oq=is+being+celibate+a+feminist+act&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyCQgAEEUYORigATIHCAEQIRigATIHCAIQIRigATIHCAMQIRigATIHCAQQIRigATIHCAUQIRirAjIHCAYQIRiPAjIHCAcQIRiPAtIBCDQ4OTFqMGo3qAIAsAIA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 https://harrietrichardson.substack.com/p/and-for-my-next-trick-celibacy?utm_source=profile&utm_medium=reader2 https://harrietrichardson.substack.com/p/day-69-of-my-celibacy-journey?utm_source=profile&utm_medium=reader2 https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-12207811https://www.astronomy.com/science/your-zodiac-sign-is-probably-wrong/https://ellamayhodson.substack.com/p/overthinking-19-no-tarquin-youre < that's me! that's my substack! https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/nov/04/is-the-british-obsession-with-class-starting-to-wane https://www.google.com/search?q=have+people+always+pretended+to+be+poor&rlz=1C5GCCM_en&oq=have+people+always+pretended+to+be+poor&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQIRiPAjIHCAIQIRiPAjIHCAMQIRiPAtIBCTExMzA2ajBqN6gCALACAA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 https://www.google.com/search?q=nouveau+riche&rlz=1C5GCCM_en&oq=nouveau+riche+&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgAEAAYjwIyBwgAEAAYjwIyDwgBEAAYRhj5ARixAxiABDINCAIQABiRAhiABBiKBTIHCAMQABiABDIHCAQQLhiABDIHCAUQABiABDIHCAYQABiABDIHCAcQABiABDIHCAgQABiABDIHCAkQABiABNIBCDE5NDhqMGo3qAIAsAIA&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8https://theconversation.com/research-shows-our-understanding-of-posh-words-is-all-wrong-240362 https://community.thriveglobal.com/inheritocracy-book-review/ https://app.thestorygraph.com/book_reviews/c54bb7d7-fbf3-4d87-8425-54dd63b07e04?page=4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QsUPu0_62so https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/nov/17/bank-of-mum-and-dad-why-we-all-now-live-in-an-inheritocracy
  • Breakups: why do they feel like that?

    01:33:09|
    Welcome to Café Femme! In this episode I chat about the history of heartbreak, why they feel like that, and some historical cures which have proven very successful in the past. I also try and compare (successfully, imo) Ovid to Dua Lipa - we love nuance! Sources used: https://drsoph.com/blog/2018/8/2/the-very-real-pain-of-breakups-why-they-hurt-so-badly-and-what-you-can-do-about-it https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/12/breakup-heartbreak-moving-on-shorten-pain/672391/ https://www.reddit.com/r/BreakUps/https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbKx03s_PJ4https://newrepublic.com/article/149142/birth-breakupshttps://www.nylon.com/articles/breaking-up-hard-to-do-feminism-kelli-korducki-interviewhttps://www.shedoesthecity.com/interview-kelli-maria-korducki-author-hard-surprising-feminist-history-breaking/https://www.pnas.org/doi/pdf/10.1073/pnas.1102693108https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-mindful-self-express/201104/the-neuroscience-relationship-breakupshttps://www.elitedaily.com/dating/scientific-reasons-why-a-broken-heart-is-really-bad-for-you/970609 https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2024/12/09/the-new-business-of-breakups https://www.poetryintranslation.com/PITBR/Latin/CuresforLove.php#anchor_Toc523020777 https://open.spotify.com/track/2ekn2ttSfGqwhhate0LSR0?si=abe9823a65fd40b5
  • Welcome to Café Femme

    10:47|
    Rebrand alert! Welcome to Café Femme with Ella Hodson... listen to the direction I'm taking the podcast in in this episode. It's a little different! Let me know your thoughts.
  • Issy Tarrant hosts: Becky & Lucy and their tales of love

    54:08|
    The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, Isabella Tarrant hosts her two friends Becky & Lucy and chats all things love. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.comArtwork by: Katherine Chisham
  • Forever & hot with Daniël Trengove

    01:35:49|
    The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, I talk to Daniël Trengove about our relationship, spying through key holes, and who is meaner. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.comArtwork by: Katherine Chisham
  • The top shaggers of Gen Z with Hannah Van de Peer

    39:57|
    The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, I talk to Hannah Van de Peer about Gen Z and their sex lives following The Times survey. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.comArtwork by: Katherine Chisham
  • Sex, music, and Hinge prompts with Charlotte Pearce

    01:23:06|
    The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, I talk to Charlotte Pearce about her project all about music and dating called Hinge Hits. We also talk about not googling scat play, and our love for Ms Bashful. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.comArtwork by: Katherine Chisham
  • Love in, world out

    30:23|
    The podcast where we talk all about modern dating. This week, I talk about what I've been up to since the last episode in September. Don't forget to rate, review & follow, and give us a follow on Instagram @theseconddatepod and e-mail me with your wild dating stories at theseconddatepodcast@gmail.comArtwork by: Katherine Chisham