The Same Boat

Cheryl Kang Prout and Vivianne Kelly of Cordial Family Lawyers, LLP provide an intimate glimpse into the world of divorce mediation. Some of the questions we discuss: Are all family lawyers the same? How does divorce affect kids? How is your conscience affected as a family law attorney? Is there a way to make divorce less painful or harmful? How can mediators be ministers? I was blown away by how much I learned from my guests, and I hope you will be illuminated as well. Please share this episode with anyone you know who is considering divorce. And as always, I truly appreciate your reviews on whichever platform you listen to this podcast!  

Has anyone ever apologized to you, and it really didn't feel like an apology at all? Have you ever tried apologizing to someone, and it had little effect on the person? On today's episode, Christine Lister and I discuss effective ways to apologize, and how resolving conflict increases intimacy. Plus, there's an additional surprise guest interview you won't want to miss!

Something very bizarre and scary happened to Aly Lee, a student at University of Virginia. Tune in to hear what happened. Discover that you're not alone as we talk about: The agony of not having answers Worst case scenarios Choosing between praying for good outcomes and embracing suffering Why certain people mean well, but just aren't helpful. And more! Thank you all for your ongoing support of this podcast, your reviews, shares and emails are such an encouragement! If you'd like to read more of Alyson's writing, check out these links: http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/10/i-had-a-stroke http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/11/six-mris-and-counting http://www.cavalierdaily.com/article/2018/12/back-to-new-normalcy

Catherine Morrill, Susette Magana and I wrap up our discussion of the book "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. We talk about the concept of Secure Connection as the antidote to the 5 unhealthy love styles that we all tend to find ourselves repeating. Some of the topics we cover: What does it mean to securely connect with another person? If I don’t naturally connect with others, can I get better? If so, how? Is there a better way for me to be understood by others? Why are emotions important, and why do we downplay them? “God, change my spouse” and other unhelpful prayers And more! To help you practice secure connection, I am providing 2 free pdf's straight from the Yerkovich resource library. One is the Comfort Circle and the other is the Soul Words list. Head over to www.newlegacycounseling.com to grab your freebies today!  

Licensed MFTs Catherine Morrill (www.soulrestorationproject.org/catherine-morrill) and Susette Magana (www.susettemagana.com) and I discuss the relationship book "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich. Chances are that you can relate to at least one of these statements: Why do people get so emotional, why can't they just move on? My spouse has communication issues. Sometimes I tell white lies to avoid conflict. I have trouble saying no. When people apologize to me, it's often too little too late. I want to feel deep connection, I want to be pursued. I stay in destructive relationships. I lose my temper but they made me. If so, then you'll want to listen in! And you definitely don't have to be married to benefit from the book and the discussion. If you'd like to read the book for yourself, you can purchase the book at www.newlegacycounseling.com/the-same-boat-podcast/    

Have you had an abortion? Whether you had an abortion long ago, or just recently, the shame and guilt can feel like it will never go away. Some women (and men) tell themselves they will take this secret to the grave. I interviewed one woman who was willing to share her abortion story. She found healing, love and forgiveness, and I hope that her story will lead you to experience the same. Follow the podcast on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/thesameboatpodcast/

Danny Roh gives us a rare look inside the mind and heart of a youth pastor who got fired. We talk about bitterness, shame, how he said goodbye to his students, unemployment, the difficulty of forgiveness, and the dangers of making pastoring become your identity. Kindly leave a review and please follow us on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/thesameboatpodcast/

Daniel and Sora tell their incredibly raw story about miscarriage, unhelpful responses, faith and atheism.

Michelle Park shares about her epic journey with chronic pain. Follow the podcast on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/thesameboatpodcast/