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You Are Already Enough: Escaping the Trap of External Validation

Ep. 92

In today’s episode, we dive deep into the impact of chasing external validation and how it leads to burnout and disconnection. Listen as we explore the journey from seeking happiness through achievement to finding peace and fulfillment from within. If you’re someone who’s caught in the cycle of “doing” in order to feel worthy or happy, this episode is for you. Learn how to break free from the pressure of external validation and cultivate happiness and self-worth from the inside out.


Key Takeaways:

  • The Cost of Burnout
  • The Roots of Self-Worth
  • The Moment of Realization
  • How to Generate Happiness from Within


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