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The Importance of Purpose & Finding Your Why

In this week's notebook I discuss the importance of not just finding your why, but acting on it.


I share the unexpected panic I felt travelling back from my interview with Robert Lewandowski because of the thought I might miss my flight home.


That rising fear revealed something important: when your purpose shifts, your reactions shift too. For me, family has become my why, and anything that pulls me away from it hits hard.


If you’ve been feeling stretched, overwhelmed, or out of alignment, this episode is a reminder that purpose isn’t a luxury — it’s your anchor. When you know your why, the world settles.

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