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THE REAL SEX EDUCATION
S4 3. Improving School Sex Ed (with Justin Hancock)
Season 4, Ep. 3
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In this episode, Diggory and his sex therapist mother Cate discuss the new bill in the UK which will make it compulsory to input data that proves you’re over 18 before you can watch any pornography online. Is this a good thing?
Enter sex educator and owner of bishuk.com, Justin Hancock who tells us whether we should be worried about the effect that porn is having on young people before outlining how we can improve sex education in schools, the importance of teaching people not just about sex but relationships and feelings as well in sex ed, what are some of the most common questions he gets from young people on his website and what Nigella Lawson can teach us about the relationship between consent and power…
You can find today's guest, Justin Hancock, on Instagram - @bishsexed and his website is bishuk.com
You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/
Subscribe to wherever you’re listening to this podcast now so you’re first to listen next week when we’ll be back answering some of the sex and relationship questions you sent in to our accredited therapist Cate who will answer them on the pod! You can email ANY questions you have to podcasts@hattrick.com or by DMing us on Instagram - @realsexedpod so you can have your question answered on future episodes!
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