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S4 11. (No) Sex in Japan (with Dr Alice Pacher)
Accredited sex therapist Cate Campbell and her son Diggory Waite are joined by Meiji University Professor Dr Alice Pacher to talk about her new book (No) Sex in Japan. They discuss why fewer and fewer people are getting into relationships and why those that are in relationships are having less sex within them. They also touch on Japan's rapidly falling birth rate, what that means for the future of the country and what we can learn from that in the West.
Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into:
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You can find Dr Alice Pacher's book, '(No) Sex in Japan' here - https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-981-16-8464-7
You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/
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