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Stranger By The Lake (2013)
Season 1, Ep. 24
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For our final 'Cruising' entry, we've returned to France to discuss Alain Giraudie's Stranger By The Lake (2013).
It's one of Joe's favourite contemporary texts, but what did Conrad think of his time watch?
Plus: unsimulated sex, naturalistic sound design, Henri's separation, and the lake as a gay utopia
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