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Mental Health Expert: Why So Many Relationships Are Failing Today ||EP 82

Season 1, Ep. 72

What’s good No Trollers

We’re back in the studio with a different kind of energy today.

We’ve got Nadia Ahmed Clinical Psychologist, Mental Health Expert, Couples Therapist, Founder of Mind Matters, co-host of Men Men Men… and yes, she prefers NOT to be called doctor 😌


From model to psychologist, we unpack her journey, confidence, what it truly means to be a woman beyond society’s expectations and we get real

From love, marriage, and therapy myths… to the uncomfortable truths most couples avoid.


We get into why some people don’t like therapy, whether love in long marriages dies and returns, rising divorce rates, religion through a psychologist’s lens, manifestation, childhood trauma, and the inferiority complex in Tanzania.


🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & everywhere you get your podcasts.

📲 Want BTS, guest drops & exclusive chaos? Join the IG VIP Chat—$3/month (Tsh 9,900)\So yeah we back with another Episode of No trolling podcast hope you guys will enjoy it!!


(Nadia's Socials)

Instagram - @nadiaahmedtz & @mindmatterstz


Chapters;

00:00 Trailer

02:04 fasting as a muslim

03:26 What nadia doesnt like about therapy

09:12 intro

10:44 Not taking life too Seriously

12:25 Nadia's modelling journey before her career

14:21 Building confidence in yourself

17:53 How to Deal with nervousness

19:05 Practicing Therapy for over a Decade

19:58 Uncomfortable Truth couples like to avoid

24:00 Things wie do in the early stages of dating

27:48 What it means to truly be a woman Today

32:21 Gender roles when in a relationship

35:17 Common misconception in marriage

37:56 Adult are just big kids

39:43 Having boundaries instead of compromising in a marriage

42:17 When a couple is married for a long time

44:38 Being a Bonus mom

46:04 The power of the words with speak

48:23 Professionals in the country fear getting challenged

50:47 Podcasting works like therapy

52:21 the common Age group as clients at mind matters

54:41 Nadia's hobbies

55:34 Nadia not liking statistics

59:48 The rise of Divorce rates in the country

01:05:16 Can a Couple recover after cheating?

01:12:17 Women are attachment beings

01:13:28 Tzee or Not Tzee (NT game)

01:15:55 Religion and Psychology

01:19:58 After the break

01:22:47 The Birth of mind matters

01:28:52 What it means to be a Therapist

01:30:07 The No trolling Questions

01:44:15 Nadia's Dream

01:45:34 Outro & Shout outs


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