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The Midlife Book Club

Claire Lombardo Maps the Shifting Terrain of Midlife Marriage and Motherhood in Her Newest Family Saga

Ep. 6

Bestselling author Claire Lombardo knows drama lurks behind every family's closed doors. Join host Katie Fogarty for an engaging dive into Lombardo's latest novel "Same As It Ever Was," which deftly explores long-term marriage, motherhood, and how our lives both change and stay exactly the same over decades. A writing teacher and indie bookseller turned literary star (and Reese Witherspoon book club pick), Lombardo shares her secrets for building rich characters through "emotional homework" and reveals why the most authentic relationships are often the messiest. A must-listen for readers navigating midlife transitions, empty nesting, and anyone who loves peering into the complexities of imperfect relationships and shifting family dynamics. Plus, tips for novel writing, character dialogue and how to overcome writing paralysis.


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