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#001 - Breaking the Cycle of Unsuccesful Dating - Amit Sodha

Ep. 1

Amit Sodha is a life and dating coach who specialising in breaking people out of the cycle of unsuccessful dating


Expect to find out:

-       Why, at least in dating, nice guys do finish last

-       Why vulnerability isn’t the best strategy for men

-       How social media has damaged the dating landscape

-       How endless texting can ruin the spark after matching

-       Why many women are ending up childless

And a whole lot more.


Amit Sodha: https://unlimitedchoice.org/uk-dating-coach-amit/


Making of a Man Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpErgxP26pdllxG6e7ETt2A


Music from #InAudio: https://inaudio.org/ 

Track Name: Hokkaido (Lo-Fi Chill Hip-Hop) - Infraction

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