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Early Masturbation Stories - LIVE from PBD Festival - BONUS EP
In this special bonus episode of The Labia Lounge I set up the pussy couch at my favourite festival, PBD. I interviewed punters about their early masturbation experiences and their journeys of self discovery. We also end up discussing all sorts of other juicy stuff and it was such a treat to have some unexpectedly deep chats with these hilarious, intelligent, sensitive beings who had the courage to step on up to The Lab Lounge's velvet flaps!
Sit back and enjoy one of my favourite episodes with loads of my favourite humans! This one is really special, folk. xx
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196. Polyamory That Doesn't Feel Like You're Dying with Clementine Morrigan
01:27:30||Season 5, Ep. 196This week in The Labia Lounge I have Clementine Morrigan back on for our second episode together!What an epic human, honestly. This chat didn't disappoint and was just as enlightening, nuanced, and compassionate as the first one. Check out our other episode if you haven't already. It's about incest, childhood sexual abuse, and cancel culture.This time we spoke about the challenges and pitfalls of dating non-monogamously. Clementine has had over a decade of experience being polyamourous and dating multiple people long-term. She's written zines and articles about this, and has an upcoming book being released in 2027 about this exact topic. How to do poly relating without it feeling like you're literally dying. Especially if you've got a background of trauma and attachment wounds that make it even more difficult to be non-monogamous!This is a really insightful episode with so much value in it for those who know that monogamy isn't necessarily for them but that find it a struggle to manage poly dynamics and all the challenging and uncomfortable reactions that arise as a result.Pre-order the book here: https://microcosmpublishing.com/catalog/books/35447?srsltid=AfmBOoqWIHhGKtZVHl91P2kkksVZDa0rUhjAXJhUtkESVZ32va1InIDkCheck out Clementine's work here: clementinemorrigan.comPlus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
195. From Spiritual-Fuckboys to Body Count Shaming - The Labia Lounge's First Ever Festival Episode!
03:08:03||Season 5, Ep. 195This week on The Labia Lounge I'm rebooting an old classic. I've edited together the 3 episodes I recorded at Comfort Creek festival a couple of years ago, which was my first ever festival appearance with the IRL pussy couch! There are some wild conversations in here, and a pretty intriguing mystery that unfolds as we go. I think you'll dig it!Captain Spice's chai can be found here: https://www.captainspice.com.au/Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
194. Overcoming Penis Performance Insecurities, Perfectionism, and Lasting Longer in The Bedroom
01:48:29||Season 5, Ep. 194This week in The Lab Lounge I have an informal yarn with a mate about his battles with premature ejaculation, performance anxiety, perfectionism and neurodivergence, including his recent discovery that he has a form of OCD as well as ADHD.We cover how he overcame this crippling insecurity and challenge in the bedroom, what worked for him and what didn't, and have some really fab discussions that I think you'll find insightful, validating, and helpful!Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Check out Captain Spice's chai here: https://www.captainspice.com.au/And SafeBAE's new resource for young boys and men here: https://www.checkyourvibe.orgMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
193. Boundaries, Blue Balls & Being Heard as a Woman with Sex Ed Princess
01:19:57||Season 5, Ep. 193This week in The Labia Lounge I'm re-releasing a favourite of mine with Jill from Sex Ed Princess.Check out her work here: https://jill-lissner.com/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
192. Sex Party Chinwags - Virtue & Vice Party 4th edition
01:40:21||Season 5, Ep. 192This week on The Labia Lounge I got to talk to lots of fascinating party goers at the latest Virtue & Vice play party event.This is my 4th V & V party episode chatting with guests, and will be the last for some time as I let my vocal cords heal (I've recently discovered I've developed cysts on the suckers!)This is the usual combo of funny stories, sexy stories, vulnerable stories, and downright awesome chats. Enjoy!Check out SafeBAE's new resource for teenage boys and young men who feel they may have caused harm or crossed someone's boundaries. It's called Vibe Check and is sooo amazing! checkyourvibe.orgMake sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
191. "That time I shit myself..." - Funny Poo Stories from PBD Festival
01:20:14||Season 5, Ep. 191This Bonus installment of The Labia Lounge is another doozie from PBD festival and you're gonna absolutely die with laughter in this one! I interviewed a combo of folk from my world and punters at PBD where I set up The Labia Lounge, asking them for stories of when they've shat themselves. And let me tell you, they did not disappoint!!! There's even a few side quests where we follow tangents about pet cats and family sex busts (what's that you ask? Listen to find out!)Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
189. What Shapes Us Sexually with Brooke Bralove
01:32:52||Season 5, Ep. 189This week in The Labia Lounge I chat with Brooke Bralove about what shapes sexuality. Brooke is a Clinical Social Worker, Psychotherapist, Sex Therapist, Certified Master Practitioner of Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART).So she knows her shit!TOPICS WE COVER:Why your pleasure is your responsibility—and how to claim itThe messy influence of childhood, culture, religion, and body imageThe factors that shape our sexual identity, expression and pleasure potentialWhat’s a kink vs. fetish? Where do our desires come from?Building anticipation, play, and eroticism in long-term relationshipsThe power and healing potential of Accelerated Resolution Therapy for sexual trauma and challengesShame-free parenting, sexual scripts, and rewriting your own sexual blueprintCheck out Brooke's work here: brookebralove@gmail.comwww.brookebralove.comFB: https://www.facebook.com/brookebralovepsychotherapy/IG: @brookebralovepsychotherapyTik Tok: @bbralovepsychotherapyThreads: @brookebralovepsychotherapyLinked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookebralovepsychotherapy/Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
188. Live @ Virtue & Vice Play Party, feat. The Funny Dom and other fun guests
01:41:15||Season 5, Ep. 188This week in The Labia Lounge I've got some seriously tasty chats for you, straight from the mouths of Babes (with a capital B)! Babes who came for a yarn on the Lounge at a recent Virtue and Vice sex party, mind you, not babies!There's everything from a speech pathologist who's fighting the good fight and helping his patients communicate in the bedroom, to a woman questioning whether she's asexual or not, to a candid conversation with The Funny Dom and his sub about some lesser known elements of Domming and the Sub/Dom relationship. Also a pretty cute confession about a crush that's gonna be aired for the first time on this episode! (Let's hope the crush-ee is tuning in!)Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my clit if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy!Check out these events from Virtue and Vice (and maybe come along to the next one!) here: https://www.virtueandvice.com.au/*** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for discounted tickets to the next one, along with extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainingsAnd chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pcAnd on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialoungeOr support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagrafOr at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink