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Embracing Change and Intentional Living with Dave Lee

Season 1, Ep. 12

In this episode learn with Bryan Hatch how Dave Lee, co-founder of several successful software companies and an avid adventurer creates a life full of Intention. Discover how Dave's upbringing instilled a love for adventure and how his journey through various career challenges has shaped his perspective on intentional living.


From kite surfing to overcoming professional setbacks, Dave shares valuable insights on embracing change, staying proactive, and the importance of annual planning with his family. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on living intentionally and making deliberate choices to shape your future.



[00:00:14] - Bryan introduces guest Dave Lee and his background.

[00:01:06] - Dave shares about his adventurous upbringing and family influence.

[00:02:20] - Story about Dave's father leading a 50-mile hike while passing kidney stones.

[00:03:10] - Dave discusses his passion for kite surfing and its business connections.

[00:06:12] - The addictive nature of kite surfing and its appeal.

[00:09:10] - Discussion on embracing change and shifting passions from skiing to kite surfing.

[00:13:15] - The concept of allowing oneself to change and not being defined by past roles.

[00:15:00] - Dave shares experiences of being fired multiple times and lessons learned.

[00:20:00] - Coping with professional setbacks and the importance of resilience.

[00:29:00] - Proactive change: determining what you truly want in life.

[00:30:50] - Dave's decision to dismantle and simplify his business for greater happiness.

[00:35:00] - Annual offsite planning with his wife for intentional living and family goals.

[00:43:00] - Importance of action items and staying intentional after planning sessions.

[00:47:50] - Conclusion and final thoughts from Dave Lee and Bryan Hatch.



You can find Dave here: https://bit.ly/facebook-dave-lee or https://bit.ly/linkedin-dave-lee

Dave mentions his Analogy of Kitesurfing and Entrepreneurship here:

Dave gives his marital/family offsite outline here: https://bit.ly/offsite-outline

He is the Co-Founder of Sixth Division (https://bit.ly/sixthdivision-website), PlusThis (https://bit.ly/plusthis-website), and Slottable (https://bit.ly/slottable-website) to name a few.

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