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cheating vs not cheating… can you text your ex a happy birthday??? 👀📞 + we got sent hate mail!!!

Season 1, Ep. 38

Welcome back to the Groupchat besties!!!


Today we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between! 


As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in the Groupchat stays in the Groupchat 


If you’d like to join the Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below: 


Let’s keep in touch 

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Email: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.com 


follow Liv on socials: 

Instagram: @oliviamescia

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follow ash on socials:

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Tik Tok: @ashleymescia


See you next Thursday xx


*We’d like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

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