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The Grounded Farmer Podcast

Farming Beyond the Past

Ep. 11

SUMMARY

In this episode of The Grounded Farmer, Jared and Jack explore the delicate balance between honouring farming traditions and embracing change. From the unspoken rules passed down through generations to the expectations tied to legacy, they unpack how these inherited stories can either guide or limit us. Through honest personal stories, from succession planning to selling beloved stock, they reveal the freedom that comes from questioning “the way it’s always been done.” The conversation dives into letting go of outdated patterns, making decisions for the present rather than the past, and creating a legacy that reflects your own values and vision. Whether you’re navigating family dynamics, running a multi-generation farm, or starting your own path, this episode offers practical insights and thought-provoking questions to help you farm for yourself, not just for history.

 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

· Not every tradition deserves to be passed down — some are ready to be retired.

· Legacy should be built on your values, not just the family name.

· Letting go of outdated systems can create new opportunities for growth.

· Succession works best when conversations start early and openly.

· Asking for help is a strength, not a weakness.

· Emotion-free decision-making can protect both business and wellbeing.

· The farm is a vehicle for your life — not the other way around.

 

RESOURCE

Tools to use and books to dive into:

  • You Are Not Your Farm — for insights that help farmers separate identity from their work. (Available on Amazon)
  • AgriCoach Podcast with Ben Law – Recommended by Jared as a great starting point for anyone looking to begin succession planning or gain tools for navigating family farm transitions. (Here)

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