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"I Only Want What Wants Me:" Big Sister Advice From Victoria Alario (For the Girls)

Ep. 111

#111: Victoria Alario is a confidence coach and host of the hit podcast, For the Girls. In today's episode, Victoria is dropping her best big sister advice on everything from confidence to dating to why (and how) to fall in love with your alone time. From how to deal with rejection to secrets for a happy, lasting relationship, Victoria shares amazing tips to help you live your best life. Josie and Victoria also chat about feminine energy: how to tap into it, why it's actually feminist, and why it could be the secret to having a happier relationship or more successful business. Consider this episode a compilation of all the advice you need to hear–this one's for the girls.


Ask The Everygirl: 0:41 "I have summer betterment burnout: I feel like I'm supposed to have a better wellness routine and feel guilty when I'm not 'taking advantage' of the weather–help!"

Interview Begins: 16:35


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