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Eli Rallo’s Rules for Flirting, Relationships, & Loving Yourself (Flashback Friday)
#342: This week, we’re bringing back one of our favorite conversations from February 2024 with writer, content creator, and author Eli Rallo. Known for her refreshingly candid takes on dating, relationships, sex, and self-worth, Eli joined Josie following the release of her first book, I Didn’t Know I Needed This. Josie and Eli get into the dating advice that actually matters: why rejection can be a gift, how to stop putting so much pressure on finding “the one,” and why building a life you genuinely love might be the best thing you can do for your love life. Eli also shares how to flirt without overthinking it, the mindset shift that makes first dates way less intimidating, how to recognize when a relationship isn’t right for you, and why you have to be willing to break your own heart sometimes. Plus, the “F me sweater,” why a first date can really only end in a second date or a good story, and the relationship advice that still hits just as hard today. Whether you’re single, dating, in a LTR or simply working on your relationship with yourself, this episode is full of reminders you probably didn’t know you needed.
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341. The 10% Rule, Part 2: 5 Changes To Make Your Life 10% Better This Week
34:52||Ep. 341#341: What if making your life significantly better didn’t require a major transformation? In part 2, Josie is back with five completely new ways to make your everyday life easier, happier, and more aligned with what actually matters to you. From finding the one small change that could have a domino effect on your entire life to a simple trick that makes changing your habits easier, these are the tiny shifts that can have a surprisingly big impact on how you feel every day.You’ll learn:How to find your “10% domino,” the small change that could improve multiple areas of your life at onceWhy putting more energy into your strengths might improve your life more than constantly trying to fix your weaknessesHow to spend 10% more on what you genuinely care about, without spending more overallWhy organizing your home based on how you actually live can make everyday life so much easierThe “10 minutes before” trick that can help you change almost any habitThis episode is brought to you by OneSkin.Get 15% off OneSkin with the code EVERYGIRL at oneskin.co/EVERYGIRLFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
340. A Fertility Doctor Answers the Questions We’re All Secretly Googling: Egg Freezing, AMH, Egg Quality & More
53:28||Ep. 340#340: When should you actually start thinking about your fertility? What does your AMH really tell you? Does being healthy mean you have good egg quality? And what actually happens when you freeze your eggs? Josie sits down with Dr. Michelle Kappy of Spring Fertility to break down the questions so many women are secretly Googling, from what happens at your first fertility appointment to what egg freezing really looks and feels like. Dr. Kappy explains which fertility tests are actually useful (and what they can’t tell you), how age, birth control, PCOS, and endometriosis can factor into fertility, and the biggest misconceptions about egg freezing. Every woman deserves the chance to sit down with a compassionate fertility expert, ask every question on her mind, and actually understand her body and her options. Consider this episode that conversation.You’ll learn:When to start thinking about your fertility (even if kids are years away)What AMH can (and cannot) tell you about your fertilityHow age, PCOS, endometriosis, and birth control factor into the conversationWhat happens to your body and your eggs during an egg-freezing cycleHow long egg freezing takes and what the injections and retrieval actually feel likeWhether fertility medications affect your hormones long-termThe biggest myths about egg quality, fertility, and egg freezingWhy you might consider freezing eggs or embryos even if you want to start trying for a baby relatively soonUse THEEVERYGIRLSPRING for $150 off a consult if used by December 31, 2027!This episode is brought to you by Spring Fertility. While they sponsor this conversation, all opinions are our own.For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
339. The Walking Routine That Changed My Life: How to Hit 10k Steps and Romanticize Hot Girl Walks (Flashback Friday)
36:28||Ep. 339#339: What if the most effective wellness habit is also the simplest (and completely free)? Josie shares why walking has become the most important part of her wellness routine—and how she uses it to support her energy, mood, digestion, fitness, and overall well-being without adding another complicated habit to her day. Josie breaks down her exact daily walking routine, the simple mindset shift that makes getting more steps feel effortless, and her favorite ways to romanticize a walk so it feels less like exercise and more like the best part of your day. She also dives into the walking trends worth knowing, from weighted walks and the 6-6-6 routine to Japanese interval walking and manifestation walks. Whether you're trying to hit 10K steps, want a lower-impact way to move your body, or just need an excuse to enter your hot girl walking era, this episode will completely change the way you think about a walk.You’ll learn:Why walking may be one of the most underrated tools for supporting your healthJosie’s exact daily walking routine and how she fits in more steps on busy daysHow to make walking your “default” instead of another task on your to-do listHow to hit 10,000 steps (but also does it actually matter to?)The walking trends Josie loves, including weighted walks, the 6-6-6 routine, and Japanese interval walkingEasy ways to romanticize your walks and actually look forward to themHow to turn your walk into a manifestation ritual and “moving vision board”Why consistency matters more than intensity when it comes to movementFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
338. Become the Person Everyone Wants to Talk To: The Science of Great Conversation
59:47||Ep. 338#338: We spend our entire lives talking to other people, but no one ever teaches us how to actually be good at it. And according to today's guest, conversation isn’t something you’re either naturally good or bad at. It’s a skill you can learn. Dr. Alison Wood Brooks is a Harvard Business School professor and MasterClass instructor, behavioral scientist, and author of TALK: The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves. After more than 15 years studying the science of conversation, she knows the tiny shifts that can make people feel more connected to you, help you navigate awkward or difficult interactions, and ultimately build better relationships. Alison break down what actually makes someone a great conversationalist and the common habits that may be preventing us from connecting as deeply as we want to, and why becoming a better conversationalist can impact so much more than your social life, from your career to your relationships to how fulfilled you feel.You’ll learn:The simple question that can instantly deepen almost any conversationWhat to do when you hit an awkward silenceThe question format that creates better conversations than “why” questionsHow to make networking feel less transactionalThe common “boomerasking” mistake that you're probably makingHow to deal with people who never ask questions about youHow to navigate disagreements without becoming defensive or trying to “win”The 30-second prep trick that can make you better at networking, dates, meetings, and social eventsHow to network and advocate for yourself at work without feeling like you’re constantly pitching yourselfWhy better conversations may be one of the keys to feeling less lonely and more connectedMasterClass — The Conversation Advantage — Alison’s class on becoming a better conversationalist.For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
337. How to Stop Wasting Your Nights After Work: The Weeknight Reset
46:32||Ep. 337#337: You finish work with every intention of working out, cooking dinner, calling a friend, reading your book, or finally getting back to that hobby you love. Then you sit down “for a second,” open TikTok, half-watch a show, and suddenly it’s 10:47 p.m. Where did your entire night go? Josie breaks down how to stop accidentally giving away the hours after work, without turning your evenings into another productivity routine. These aren’t leftover hours to kill until tomorrow or the waiting room in between workdays; they’re where your relationships, hobbies, health, dreams, and actual enjoyment of your life happen. The goal isn’t to squeeze more productivity out of your free time, it’s to remember that your life doesn’t end when the workday does.You’ll learn:Why the hours after work make up more of your life than you realizeThe green, yellow, and red night framework for deciding what you actually needThe psychology of why you can feel completely depleted after workThe 4 types of recovery—and why lying on the couch isn’t always what will make you feel restoredThe 15-minute after-work habit that can change the trajectory of your entire nightHow to choose a “night anchor” so your evening feels well-spentThe “one before none” rule for breaking the scroll → Netflix → bed cycleHow to make the things you genuinely want to do easier for your post-work selfWhy you should aim for a balanced week instead of a balanced nightUse code "THEEVERYGIRL15" for 15% your order from Anima Mundi Herbals.For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
336. The Most Successful People in the World Have This One Skill–And It's Not What You Think, With Liz Tran (Flashback Friday)
57:27||Ep. 336#336: The world is changing faster than ever: AI is reshaping industries, careers are pivoting overnight, and the rules we were taught about success don’t seem to apply anymore. Today, Josie is joined by Liz Tran, executive coach to some of the most powerful founders and CEOs in the world, and author of AQ: The Agility Quotient. Liz breaks down the new trait that actually makes the biggest difference between who will thrive and succeed, and who will fall apart.You'll learn:Why success today has nothing to do with having the “perfect” experience or knowledgeThe #1 trait of the most successful people, and why it makes a bigger difference now more than everHow to deal with uncertainty and changeThe psychological gap between people who adapt vs. avoidThe 4 archetypes (you’ll immediately recognize yourself in one)How to build confidence in chaos instead of waiting for stabilityWhy discomfort might actually be proof you’re on the right pathFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
335. The Subconscious Patterns Running Your Life (And How to Finally Change Them) with Dr. Thais Gibson
52:09||Ep. 335#335: Why do you keep repeating patterns you know aren’t serving you? According to Dr. Thais Gibson, the answer may have less to do with willpower and more to do with your subconscious. Josie sits down with Dr. Thais, bestselling author and creator of Integrated Attachment Theory, to unpack how subconscious beliefs and attachment patterns shape the way we think, feel, and behave. Dr. Thais breaks down the four attachment styles in a way that goes far beyond the typical “anxious versus avoidant” conversation, explaining the core wounds, unmet needs, nervous system responses, and relationship patterns associated with each. This conversation will give you a completely new framework for understanding why you are the way you are—and how much of it you actually have the power to change.You’ll learn:How to identify your attachment style (and why you might have yours wrong)The core wounds and unmet needs behind anxious, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant attachmentWhere attachment patterns come from and why they can develop even if you had a happy childhoodHow your attachment style affects your nervous system, boundaries, communication, and relationshipsWhy knowing a fear is irrational doesn’t necessarily make it go awayHow to start shifting subconscious patterns instead of simply becoming aware of themThe daily 2–5 minute exercise to rewire a core woundHow to move toward a more secure attachment style, no matter where you’re startingThis episode is brought to you by Tumble: Machine Washable Rugs, Made Better. For a limited time only, get 10% off & free shipping at tumbleliving.com/EVERYGIRL For Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com
334. October's Curriculum: Your Glow-Up Guide to Reclaiming Your Power
50:41||Ep. 334#334: What if the qualities women have been taught to fear most—being too loud, too ambitious, too opinionated, too independent, too much—are actually where our power lives? In October’s curriculum episode, Josie explores the fascinating archetype of the witch and what it reveals about the ways women have been conditioned to seek approval, fear aging and rejection, distrust their intuition, and make themselves smaller. She shares five habits to reclaim your power, from questioning the fears you’ve inherited to strengthening your intuition. Plus, Josie assigns October’s homework: the “Good Girl Detox,” a month-long challenge to stop unnecessary apologies, quit over-explaining, interrogate your “shoulds,” and practice choosing yourself. Consider this your October reminder that being a good person and being a “good girl” are two very different things.You’ll learn:Why the witch became such a powerful cultural warning—and what she can teach us about female autonomyThe difference between being kind and making yourself likableHow to reclaim the qualities you’ve been told are “too much”How to recognize when fear is masquerading as a preferenceWhy self-trust isn’t about always making the right decisionThe five rules of Josie’s “Good Girl Detox” to practice throughout OctoberThis episode is brought to you by OSEAHead to OSEAMalibu.com and use code "THEEVERYGIRL" for 10% off your order.This episode is also brought to you by OneSkin.Get 15% off OneSkin with the code EVERYGIRL at oneskin.co/EVERYGIRLFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com