The Cocoon: A Safe Place for Victims and Survivors of Sexual Trauma

In this eye-opening episode, host Ruby Mikolaitis sits down with Jackie McMillan, Senior Project Officer of 'It Left No Marks', to explore the growing trend of erotic strangulation. Why do people engage in this risky practice, and why are younger audiences increasingly drawn to it?Together, they dive into the dangers, the psychology behind it, and most importantly, how to ensure safe practices with clear boundaries and consent. Don't miss this candid conversation about a rising, yet often misunderstood, sexual behavior.Article Links:'It Left No Marks' Sexual Choking Campaign'More than half of Australian young people are using strangulation during sex'- Heather Douglas (The Conversation)TBBI Links/Enquiries:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auWebsite: thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis:100RESPECT: 1800 737 732Interested in being a guest speaker on the podcast? We are currently on the look-out for people to share their story so if interested:Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.au

The Real Talk on Trauma: What No One Prepares You For" dives deep into the often-overlooked aspects of healing from sexual trauma.Join Ruby and founder of TBBI Tina Meyer as they pull back the curtain on the raw, unfiltered truths of recovery—the emotional hurdles, the unexpected struggles, and the silent battles that aren’t always part of the conversation.This episode is for anyone navigating their own healing journey or seeking to understand the realities that come with it.Enquiries/Contacts:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auPodcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis:100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Join Ruby Mikolaitis from The Blue Butterfly Institute as she interviews Paris, the voice behind 'Shits Fucked' podcast.Discover Paris's incredible journey from meth addiction to advocacy, breaking the stigma around substance abuse.Listen in as they discuss systemic flaws, share life toolkits, and reveal how Paris is using her platform to inspire real change.This episode is a must-hear for anyone looking for hope, resilience, and a fresh perspective on recovery.Enquiries/Contacts:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auPodcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis:100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Join us in the latest episode of The Cocoon as we sit down with Sarah Williams, the visionary creator of the 'What Were You Wearing' organization.Sarah delves into her mission to transform policies and perspectives around victim-blaming. Discover the powerful stories and ground-breaking initiatives that are reshaping the conversation on victim advocacy and justice.Don’t miss this inspiring discussion on creating a world where every voice is heard and respected.Enquiries/Contacts:WWYW Instagram: @whatwereyouwearing_Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auPodcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis:100RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Joining us in this captivating episode, we're joined by Ally Hijazi, a dynamic lawyer, compelling speaker, and passionate advocate for family rights.Ally fearlessly shares her journey from childhood trauma to self-acceptance, sprinkling humour and candour along the way. Through highs and lows, she reveals the pivotal moments that shaped her resilience and authenticity.Get ready for an inspiring ride as Ally's story reminds us of the power of embracing our true selves and rewriting our narratives.Enquiries/Contacts:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteWebsite: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auPodcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis :1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Step into the captivating world of "Memory Maze," where Dr. Hayley Cullen takes us on a riveting journey through the intricate labyrinth of child abduction issues in Australia.In this episode, we delve deep into the vital role memory plays in accurately witnessing and identifying these harrowing incidents to law enforcement.Join us as we unravel the complexities of memory recall and its pivotal significance in solving cases of child abduction.Dr. Cullen, with her expertise, guides us through the maze of psychological processes that influence memory formation and retrieval, shedding light on how crucial it is for witnesses to provide accurate and detailed accounts to aid authorities in their investigations.With compelling anecdotes and expert insights, "Memory Maze" not only educates but also captivates, reminding us of the profound impact that each memory holds in the pursuit of justice. Tune in as we navigate through the twists and turns of memory, illuminating the path towards safeguarding our children and communities.Information mentioned:Hayley Cullen's article on The Conservation: Enquiries/Contact:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya StarkFacebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteWebsite: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auPodcast email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auIf in need of help during an immediate crisis:1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

In this compelling episode of The Cocoon, host Ruby Mikolaitis delves into the intricate world of image-based sexual abuse with renowned expert Nicola Henry. Together, they unravel the complexities of this pervasive issue, discussing its definition, far-reaching impact, and the crucial steps we can take to safeguard our online presence. Through insightful analysis and practical advice, this episode sheds light on a pressing digital-age challenge, empowering listeners to navigate the virtual landscape with knowledge and resilience.Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of image-based sexual abuse and discover actionable strategies for protecting yourself and your loved ones in the digital sphere.Information mentioned:Umibot: Umibot Chat SiteESafety Website Youth Law AustraliaNon-Consensual Sexual Imagery ArticleImage-Based Sexual Abuse ProjectNicola's Article On Image-Based Sexual AbuseEnquiries and Contact:Intro/Outro Theme: Breaking The Silence by Marya Stark Facebook: The Blue Butterfly InstituteWebsite: The Blue Butterfly InstituteEmail: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auPodcast Email: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auIf in need of immediate crisis:1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

Disclaimer: This episode contains themes and content around sexual violence, listener discretion is advised. In this episode, we explore the Australian Law Reform Commission's inquiry into the criminal justice system's response to cases of sexual violence. Lawyer and professor Amanda-Jane George joins us to discuss the need for a more 'trauma-friendly' approach, particularly in court cases and restorative justice processes. We examine the challenges survivors face in the legal system and how reforms could lead to a more supportive and empathetic environment. Join us as we delve into this important topic and consider how these changes could humanise the legal process and better support survivors of sexual violence.Link to article discussed in episode: hereContact and Enquiries:Institute: hello@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auPodcast: podcast@thebluebutterflyinstitute.com.auFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebluebutterflyinstitute.org.auThe Blue Butterfly Institute is not a crisis helpline, for assistance with an immediate crisis, please contact:Full Stop Australia: 1800 385 578Blue Knot Helpline: 1300 657 380