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Season 3, Ep. 8
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In this episode of 'The CHC Podcast Congenital Heart Conversations,' host Anna Jaworski, a heart mom to an adult with a single ventricle heart, is joined by her co-host Nicholle Bilodeau, who was born with a bicuspid aortic valve. The episode explores the unique challenges faced by individuals living with congenital heart disease (CHD) who are also married.
Two couples, Jason and Jen Crutchley, as well as Mark and Michelle DeRoo, share their stories of navigating marriage, medical uncertainties, and daily routines while dealing with CHD. They discuss how communication, mutual support, and understanding have helped them succeed as a couple. The episode also touches on the emotional and logistical aspects of living with CHD and provides strategies for maintaining intimacy and partnership during difficult times. Both couples offer insights and advice for newlyweds or couples beginning their journey together in the CHD community.
Other Episodes You May Enjoy:
Heart Stories: Triumphs and Trials of Multiple Transplants -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/heart-stories-triumphs-and-trials-of-multiple-transplants--65819796 (featuring Jason Crutchley as a Co-Host)
Voices of Victory: Overcoming Congenital Heart Challenges -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/voices-of-victory-overcoming-congenital-heart-challenges--58745010 (featuring Michelle DeRoo as a Guest)
Nurturing the Nurturers: Insights into CHD Caregiving -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/nurturing-the-nurturers-insights-into-chd-caregiving--62573179 (featuring Mark DeRoo as a Guest)
The Pulse of Perseverance: Unveiling the Heart Transplant Experience -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-pulse-of-perseverance-unveiling-the-heart-transplant-experience--59714311 (featuring Jason Crutchley as a Co-Host)
Transplantation in the CHD Community -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/transplantation-in-the-chd-community--57464324 (featuring Jason Crutchley as a Co-Host)
Town Hall Meeting: Feeling Different -- https://www.spreaker.com/episode/town-hall-meeting-feeling-different--53698411 (featuring Jason Crutchley as a Guest)
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