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The Break-Up Diet

He Came Back The SECOND I Started Moving On. ft Kelly Hunt

Season 2, Ep. 24

This week I’m joined by Kelly Hunt and GIRLS… this episode is painfully relatable if you’ve ever sat there convincing yourself you were “just overthinking” when deep down you already knew something was off!!


We get into relationship anxiety, emotionally unavailable men, attachment styles, checking phones, cheating, women’s intuition, and why some men somehow ALWAYS come back the second you finally start moving on.


Kelly opens up about being married to someone she thought was her forever person, getting the infamous “hey girly…” DM, finding out about a secret folder on his phone, and the moment she realised she physically couldn’t keep forcing herself to stay in a relationship that was making her anxious all the time.


We also talk about toxic dating patterns, long distance relationships, avoidant men, trying to be the “cool chill girlfriend”, and how easy it is to lose yourself when you spend years trying to make the wrong relationship work.


There’s conversations about feeling physically sick waiting for a text back, stalking followings, convincing yourself you’re being “crazy”, and the emotional confusion of loving someone who simultaneously makes you feel insecure, drained, and constantly on edge 😭


Honestly this episode feels like one long girls bathroom conversation about modern dating, self-worth, gut feelings, heartbreak, healing, and finally realising that peace in a relationship should never feel this hard to find.


Messy, honest, validating, slightly chaotic and VERY real 💌


Press play if you’ve ever felt “crazy” in a relationship… and later realised you weren’t 😭

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