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When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5
No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.
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Timestamps:
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(00:00): Episode Intro
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(05:57): How they met
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(09:26): The first signs of something going wrong
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(10:40): Getting the life-changing DM
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(20:21): Confronting her fiancee
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(25:31): The aftermath of the confrontation
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(28:44): Finding love again
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(32:08): Advice
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(39:32): Teaser
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