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When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4

Season 6, Ep. 4

Our very first male interview returns for an update on answers he found on why his relationship ended. In season 2 episode 16, he was grappling for a reason why his relationship of 4 years abruptly came to an end. Two years later, he says he may have found the reason why she left him all those years ago.

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Catch up on his original episode, S2E16: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd006

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Timestamps:

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(00:00): Episode Intro

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(13:21): Why he came back on the podcast

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(21:29): How the closure impacted him

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(23:06): How his previous relationship affects his new relationship

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(25:02): Advice

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(30:13): Teaser

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