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When her ex-husband started dating her friend.... - S6E11
She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.
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Timestamps:
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(00:00): Episode Intro
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(08:02): Recap on S3E7
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(14:42): How they met
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(16:19): The red flags
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(18:05): When the truth came out
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(25:19): How she is approaching life as a single mom
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(27:13): Reflecting on her relationships that ended
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(34:27): Advice
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(36:22); Teaser
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