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When he transitioned after their divorce.... - S6E9
The only thing lonelier than singleness is feeling alone in your marriage. When this week's interviewee said she felt her husband pulling away, she thought it was just because they were growing apart. It wasn't until after the divorce that she found out the distance between them ran much deeper than personality differences. We'll hear about the shocking call between the ex-wife and the new GF, when we break down this week's break up.
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Timestamps:
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(00:00): Episode Intro
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(06:16): How they met
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(11:08): The first signs something was off
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(15:44): The end of their marriage, aftermath
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(18:01): The shocking call from her ex's new GF
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(19:31): Reflecting
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(26:08): Advice/healing from the divorce
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(31:08): Teaser
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