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The Break Up Break Down
When she had to DM his ex on LinkedIn.... - S7E13
She met him on a fun weekend in Nashville. He was tall, charming, and technically still living with his ex, even though swore it was “just temporary.” When they finally made it official, he was gone—ghosted her like a true con artist in cowboy boots. So why did he come back around days later with a big ol' sob story? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.
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This week we're raising awareness for the Domestic Violence Resource Center in Albuquerque, NM: https://dvrcnm.org/
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Timestamps:
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(00:00): Episode Intro
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(03:30): How they met
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(10:24): Red flags
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(19:29): The actual break up
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(26:24): The aftermath
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(28:29): Reflecting/advice
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(32:02): Teaser
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