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The Break Up Break Down
When she didn't know she was in an abusive relationship.... - Replay
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This episode originally aired in October 2022
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Timestamps:
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(00:00-04:09): Episode Intro
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(04:53): How they got together
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(06:20): When the red flags started to show
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(07:37): When things started to take a turn for the worst
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(10:16): Why she decided to stay when things got violent
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(11:49): When the relationship finally came to an end
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(13:09): Why she wanted to stay in this relationship
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(14:18): The aftermath of the relationship
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(17:36): When she finally identified that this was abuse
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(20:25): Advice she would give to people in her situation
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(25:02): Thursday Episode
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[CW: Sexual Assault, Domestic Violence/Intimate Partner Violence, Miscarriage, Mental Health]
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