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The Break Up Break Down
When he wrote a letter in his own blood.... - S5E14
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When an episode starts with a bloody knife found in the kitchen, you don't think it's going to lead to a break up where both people still care for each other. After a series of harrowing incidents that lead to one of them serving time in jail, how can this week's interviewee still have so much love for her ex? We'll dive into the story when we break down this week's break up.
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Timestamps:
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(00:00): Episode Intro
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(08:15): How they met
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(11:27): What started the demise of the relationship
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(18:54): Events where she felt threatened by her BF before the accident
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(25:30): Choosing psychology as a career to understand him better
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(42:02): Their secret engagement
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(43:46): Advice
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(48:26): Teaser
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[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicidal ideation, self-harm]
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