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EP 4. Who shapes us as men?

Who do we look up to, and why do they hold such a powerful influence on us? In this episode of The Bonded Banter, Dan & Connor get real about the heroes, father figures, and mentors who shaped their views on life, masculinity, and personal growth.


From childhood idols to the people inspiring them today, they dive into the impact of strong role models and the lessons learned along the way.


Plus, Connor reflects on his own journey of growing up, who he looked up to as a kid, how that’s changed, and what goals are driving him forward now. It’s an open and honest chat about the people who guide us, whether they’re famous figures, family, or everyday legends.


Tune in and ask yourself: Who’s inspiring YOU?


Get in contact with Dan & Connor:

📱@thebondedbanterpodcast

📧 thebondedbanterpodcast@gmail.com

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