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The 20 Something Playbook

Chapter One: Choosing Your Hard in Your 20s

Season 1, Ep. 1

Hosted by three sisters in their 20s, The 20 Something Playbook is your guide through the good, the bad, and the ugly of this defining decade.


In this intro episode, Madison, Ava and Elle break down navigating the cross roads they've faced in their 20s, and "choosing your hard" - the mantra for making difficult decisions. We get into the mission behind The 20 Something Playbook, what to expect from future episodes, and talk over each other a little too much - it's an epidemic, we know.


We have a lot of exciting guests and conversations on the horizon, full season is available NOW! New episodes every Tuesday


In the episode: 

0:00 — Intro 

00:16 Turning 25, struggling & writing a book 

01:35 Teen expectations vs 20s reality + book 

02:14 Feeling anxious while doing something you're proud of 

03:00 The scariest thing about your 20s 

03:45 Storytelling is our passion 

05:48 Emailing your teachers and life lessons 

08:31 Working together as sisters 

09:53 No guidebook for creative careers 

11:34 Learning screenwriting & the journey 

12:37 We talk over each other 

13:52 Intense perfectionism & Steve Jobs 

14:44 Punching a wall moment 

16:22 Why I punched the wall 

17:25 Coping mechanisms in your 20s 

17:40 Not gonna get into it (lol) 

21:00 Failed my driver’s test 

22:46 "I feel scared" and working together 

24:24 Choosing your hard with mental health 

26:35 Therapy is hard too 

27:37 Carrying her out of the bookstore 

29:10 Supporting each other’s mental health 

30:18 Less BS after going through stuff 

31:04 No time for people you don’t love 

31:34 Recovering people-pleaser 

33:08 Great friendships in your 20s 

34:15 Trading what’s good for what’s right 

35:45 The positive side of being alone 

36:08 Disco guy moment 

36:22 Introvert life 

36:59 Pursuing passions helps relationships 

37:36 Business disagreement 

38:48 Humility over ego 

39:47 Don’t wait for a partner 

41:14 Mic drop moment 

41:53 Sisterly love & support 

42:20 Crying this week + EFT tapping 

43:49 Bananas made my ears full? 

44:29 Stress baking 

45:30 Childhood dog memories 

46:17 Dog mom life chose me 

47:09 Gap jeans are waterproof?? 

48:09 We had a healthy week


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