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Hayley Cockman & Premature Menopause at 14 (Primary Ovarian Insufficiency)

Hi! Welcome to That’s So Chronic. Today I sat down on video call with Hayley Cockman, who was diagnosed with premature menopause - or primary ovarian insufficiency as it is called nowadays - when she was only 14 years old. 

In today’s episode Hayley talks us through her diagnosis, what that meant for her growing up, why she kept it a secret for so long, some tips and tricks to menopause, her adoption journey and why she has been inspired to start sharing her story publicly. It’s a big one!

There are so many gems of wisdom in this episode, and I can’t wait for you all to listen.

To read more about Hayley’s story, check out her blog: hayleysmenopause14.blogspot.com

And make sure you follow her journey on instagram: @prematuremenopause14

If you want to reach out, you can find me @thatssochronic on instagram. I love hearing from you all! I also love to see where you’re listening to the pod, so feel free to tag me in your pictures. 

If you’re new around here and you enjoyed this episode, make sure you press that subscribe button on Apple Podcasts, follow on Spotify and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. That really helps TSC get into more ears around the world to hopefully spread awareness, and more importantly… Hope.

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Disclaimer: Here at That's So Chronic we are sharing personal stories and are not advocating any type of treatment, therapy, procedure or intervention. Everyone is unique so please seek professional medical advice before making any decisions for yourself or for others.



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