That Sexciting

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with the fabulous Shan Boodram—bestselling author, and sex and relationship expert. Shan spills all the tea on building a roster, navigating friends with benefits, and non-monogamy. With a library of insightful content on love, relationships, and sex on her YouTube channel, Shan BOODY, she's here to break it all down.Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeReady to Be In the Room you dream of?Connect with THE best coach, Lauren Morrison: https://www.beintheroomcoaching.comWant to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today’s guest: Instagram: @shanboodramYouTube: Shan BoodyInstagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with Eliza Boquin, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist. Eliza helps us unpack the reasons behind why people cheat, debunks popular myths around infidelity, and answers questions from our listeners.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to share your thoughts on this week’s episode!Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeWant to be featured on the podcast?Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsexciting/Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today’s guest: Eliza BoquinInstagram: @elizagboquinFacebook: @elizagboquinWebsite: https://flowandeasehealing.com/Instagram: @thatsexcitingTikTok: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexciting

How have your personal experiences with loss shaped your approach to living?In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with her friend Corbin. Corbin shares her story: the emotional weight of losing a spouse, the intricate process of grieving, and the journey of rediscovering herself. Yancy also speaks to her mom to learn more about her unique perspective on death, the loss of her late husband, and her thoughts on her own mortality. This episode dives deep into the personal experiences and emotions tied to loss, aiming to offer insight and perhaps a sense of solidarity to those facing their own encounters with grief.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Instagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:[NYT Article] What to Say (and What Not to Say) to Someone Who’s Grievinghttps://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/14/smarter-living/what-to-say-and-what-not-to-say-to-someone-whos-grieving.html [Harvard Article] Ways to support someone who is grievinghttps://www.health.harvard.edu/mind-and-mood/ways-to-support-someone-who-is-grieving[Healthline - Not mentioned] Stages of griefhttps://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief#length-of-each-stageConfidential & Anonymous Phone Lines have personally helped me navigate grief as someone who experienced it and for supporting others. 

Let’s talk about Sex Education! Yancy virtually sits down with Mariah from the @sexedfiles to discuss what comprehensive sex education is, school curriculums and answer a popular sexedfile question!Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Feature in the podcast by submitting a vocal submission!shorturl.at/beFIWWant to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @sexedfilesTikTok: @sexedfilesFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingResources mentioned:Sex check-list by Scarleteenhttps://bit.ly/44qkWWgMattxiv’s Instagram Post: “There’s no such thing as an LGBTQ child” https://bit.ly/411GLIV

What are your thoughts on intimacy and friendships? On this episode, Yancy sits down with old crush (now good friend) Naika to discuss types of intimacy, and check in on their friendship.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow today's guestInstagram: @naikachampaigneSolo Album "Painted Imageries": https://linktr.ee/NaikaChampaigneFollow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingArticle mentioned: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-intimacy-in-a-relationship-5199766

What's the current dating pool like today? This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Rome Green Jr. to discuss the current dating market. Rome opens up about his dating experiences, the difference between relationships and connections, the lack of accountability and self-awareness of prospects and how his views on relationships evolved after his trip to Africa.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Want to lube up your pleasure?SUTIL Personal Lubricant: https://bit.ly/sutillubeLet’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guestInstagram: @iromealotPodcast: @cthpodcastwww.shadysideup.comBook MentionedGame of Desire by Shan Boodyhttps://www.thegameofdesire.com/workbook

Can you recall a moment or experience that led to your understanding of patriarchy?This week, Yancy sits down with one of her favourite visual artists Miss Me Art. They talk about meeting our own patriarchal mindset, the sexual shame for people with vulvas, Miss Me’s art as therapy and she shares the emotional story of how she discovered that her body is not the problem. Furthermore, Yancy explores with Andrea Cooks the power and benefits of art therapy.Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coGoFundMe: thatsexciting.co/gofundmeSupport & Donatehttps://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guests Miss MeInstagram: @miss_me_artInstagram backup: @missmeart2 Twitter: @TheArtfulVandalwww.miss-me-art.com/shopAndrea CookInstagram: @intimagetherapieFacebook: @INTIMAGEtherapieClinique Intimage la thérapie par les Arts

This week, Yancy virtually sits down with Jimanekia Eborn, a queer Sexual Assault & Trauma Expert. They talk about the power of self-identifying, navigating sexuality as a survivor, how we can show up for ourselves and how we can support our peers. Don’t forget to tag #thatsexcitingpod or @ us to let us know what you think of this week’s episode. Let’s keep in touch on social media!Follow your host @yancycheryInstagram: @thatsexcitingTwitter: @thatsexciting_Facebook: thatsxcitingEmail: contact@thatsexciting.coSupport & Donate: https://paypal.me/thatsexcitingFollow today’s guest Jimanekia EbornWebsite: www.traumaqueen.love Instagram: @jimanekiaTwitter: @jimanekia Ressources mentioned: The Tao of Trauma by Alaine D. Duncan, Kathy L. Kainshorturl.at/qrUX2What Happened to You? By Oprah Winfrey & Bruce D. Perryshorturl.at/kmPX8 The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.shorturl.at/dNRS3TRE stretching exercices:Vagus Nerve Reset To Release Trauma Stored In The Body (Polyvagal Exercises) - YouTubeTRE, Trauma Releasing Exercises - YouTubeTRE® : Tension and Trauma Releasing Exercises, an Introduction with Jessica Schaffer - YouTube