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Breaking the Shame: Supporting Children of Divorced Parents in the Classroom With Ang

Ep. 76

DESCRIPTION:

In this episode, Tem welcomes the inspiring Ang Allan-Burns, a podcaster, author, and life coach known for her impactful podcast, Do I Really Hate Men? Tem and Ang discuss divorce and children, delving into the changes in a child's academic performance and behaviour during divorce, and how parents can balance their emotional recovery while supporting their children's educational needs. Ang discusses the educational impact on children of single parents, and reflects on the support divorced parents and children receive from schools during this difficult time. She also provides invaluable advice for those just starting the divorce process, making this episode a must-listen for anyone seeking guidance in their journey.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • Schools play a critical role in providing assistance and understanding to both children and parents during the difficult process of divorce.
  • Parents need to find a balance between their emotional healing and supporting their children's educational and emotional needs during and after divorce.
  • Ang Allan-Burns reflects on the unique educational hurdles faced by children of single parents and the importance of school support.

BEST MOMENTS:

"Behavioural changes, he withdrew within himself"

"Talking and communicating is key"

"They have outbursts of anger and anxiety"

"We put our children in situations without realising the impact it can have on schools"

"We didn't have the option of separate parents evenings"

"I remembered feeling really sorry for the teacher"

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ABOUT THE HOST:

Since embarking on her teaching journey in 2009, Tem has been on a mission to empower students to reach their fullest potential. Specialising in Secondary Physical Education, Tem also has experience in Special Educational Needs (SEN) as a class teacher in an SEN provision. With an unwavering commitment to helping students become the best versions of themselves, Tem believes in the power of education to shape not just academic prowess, but character and resilience. Having mentored numerous teachers throughout her career, she is not only shaping young minds but also nurturing the growth of those who guide them.

ABOUT THE SHOW:

Empowering Educators with Insights, Tips, and Teaching Strategies

Designed for educators at every stage of their careers, this podcast for teachers is your go-to resource for exploring the dynamic world of teaching. Join me as I offer valuable insights, practical tips, and expert advice on effective teaching strategies to Empower Educators and help you succeed as a classroom practitioner. Follow my journey as I continue to learn, grow, and share my experiences and lessons that can enhance your teaching practice.

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Email: tem@helpingteachersthrive.com

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