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You've got to crawl before you walk

Season 6, Ep. 3

In this episode of the Yes Girl Career Coaching Podcast, talking about the wisdom that "mama used to say..." we explore the timeless saying, "You’ve got to crawl before you walk," and what it means for your career. Whether you’re starting a new role, learning a new skill, or pursuing a long-term goal, it’s all about embracing the early stages and mastering the fundamentals. With a blend of humor, relatable stories, and actionable advice, this episode reminds us that success is a journey—one small step (or crawl) at a time.


We discuss the importance of setting realistic goals, practicing patience, and embracing the learning process, even when it’s messy. From the awkward moments of starting out to the valuable lessons learned along the way, this episode is here to encourage you to trust the process and build the foundation for a thriving career.


Key Takeaways:

  1. Set Small, Achievable Goals: Focus on realistic, actionable steps that build toward long-term success. Progress, no matter how small, adds up over time.
  2. Practice Patience: Growth takes time. Avoid rushing through the learning process, and trust that every step prepares you for the next.
  3. Embrace the Messiness of Learning: Mistakes are inevitable—and valuable! Each misstep is an opportunity to grow and refine your skills.
  4. Ask Questions and Stay Curious: Nobody expects you to know everything right away. Be proactive in seeking knowledge and guidance.
  5. Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate every milestone, no matter how minor—it’s all part of the journey.
  6. Keep a Sense of Humor: When things go wrong (and they will), laugh it off and remember that every successful person started somewhere.


This episode is your reminder to embrace the crawl stage of your career with patience, persistence, and maybe even a little laughter. Keep moving forward—you’ve got this!



About Yes Girl Career Coaching: Yes Girl Career Coaching is a platform dedicated to helping women take control of their careers, so they can concentrate on spending time where it counts most. The group, comprised of a team of gifted coaches, focuses on navigating a career in Corporate America, shifting the mindset for women to treat themselves as a business and fine-tune soft skills. Want to get free coaching and career tools, sign-up for a coaching session on our website https://www.yesgirlcareercoaching.com.

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