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Steve Lovell #2 - punk rocker, record producer, decorator, relationship coach and Dad

Season 1, Ep. 2
Today's Guest Steve Lovell:


Steve Lovell is a Super Dad. Dig into his life story of playing in punk bands, being a record producer, confessing to Richard Branson, falling in love, leaving the music industry and becoming a Father. 


Today Steve is a relationship coach and author. As such he is a huge contribution to families and children across the World.


https://www.facebook.com/stevelovellcoach

The Relationship Book: A Practical Guide To Rekindling Love And Partnership In Your Relationship 


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    26:23||Ep. 163
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    18:41||Ep. 162
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    23:59||Ep. 159
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