Team Super Dad with Jonnie Jensen

It's the weekend which means its time for the Wrap Up.Dad chat and topical banter for your pleasure.Maybe doing a Saturday morning show will be Glen and I's access to superstardom. Watch out Ant and Dec, we're coming to get ya.In this weeks Wrap Up... Prince Philip narrowly misses out on 100 The Grand National horse race The importance of doing dangerous things Mums fighting to see their children Falling off my bike When your kids meet your girlfriendAnd other topics which will likely come up and ruin this list. ENJOY! If you enjoy the Wrap Up be sure to subscribe and review the podcasthttps://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastJoin the Team Super Dad network for free access to our community and live events for Dads.https://teamsuperdad.com/networkYou can watch and leave comments on the videos Live or the video replays...YouTube https://teamsuperdad.com/videoFacebook http://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadTeam Super DadTeam Super Dad gives Dads the tools and confidence to live their life they desire, not the life they feel stuck with. We transform Dads health, wealth and happiness so that they can feel great about themself, create more time with their family and enjoy life to the full.Find Out More About Team Super DadTeam Super Dad websitehttps://teamsuperdad.com/Work with a Dad Coach - Jonnie Jensenhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/dad-coaching/Join the Hero Academyhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/heroacademy/Join the Facebook grouphttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadSubscribe to the podcasthttps://podfollow.com/teamsuperdad/

March has whistled by and Easter is here. Which means we are officially looking forward to summer. What madness awaits us? How did we even get through the last week? And why did a pint of beer get so expensive?Glen has been emptying his garage, whilst I have been managing the new experience of introducing a girlfriend into a single Dad life. I've literally no idea what we put to rights tonight as we pretty much strayed off the whole running order I created!I've gotta a feeling it went something like this....🍕 What to buy a new girlfriend on her birthday🍕 How did beer get so expensive?🍕 How to react when your child tells you they are gay🍕 Modern Dads - it ain't like it used to be🍕Coming out of lockdown ready for anything!And a whole lot of other stuff which just falls out of Glen @adatingdad and @jonniejensen. If you enjoy the Wrap Up be sure to subscribe and review the podcasthttps://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastJoin the Team Super Dad network for free access to our community and live events for Dads.https://teamsuperdad.com/networkYou can watch and leave comments on the videos Live or the video replays...YouTubehttps://teamsuperdad.com/videoFacebookhttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadTeam Super DadTeam Super Dad gives Dads the tools and confidence to live their life they desire, not the life they feel stuck with. We transform Dads health, wealth and happiness so that they can feel great about themself, create more time with their family and enjoy life to the full.Find Out More About Team Super DadTeam Super Dad websitehttps://teamsuperdad.com/Work with a Dad Coach - Jonnie Jensenhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/dad-coaching/Join the Hero Academyhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/heroacademy/Join the Facebook grouphttps://teamsuperdad.com/networkSubscribe to the podcasthttps://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcast

It's that time of the week again - the Wrap Up #33.What a week. I lost a good friend and inspiration to me, Steve Lovell. Then with date #7 scheduled I seemed to have found myself a girlfriend. Lucky man! And of course, Glen and I also hosted a conversation with women about men and sexual abuse which led me to search up the meaning of feminism.Always learning, which was a large part of my motivation to create Team Super Dad.In this weeks Wrap Up:✅ Back in the game after 5.5 years✅ That conversation about women and men✅ A tribute to the wonderful Stevel Lovell✅ F1 - Glen's Christmas Eve and Birthday rolled into one✅ Hot in the 90's✅ Summer holidays on or off?And any other mindless banter we stumble upon. Let's do this.If you enjoy the Wrap Up be sure to subscribe and review the podcasthttps://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastJoin the Team Super Dad network for free access to our community and live events for Dads.https://teamsuperdad.com/networkYou can watch and leave comments on the videos Live or the video replays...YouTube https://teamsuperdad.com/videoFacebook http://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdad

Women face unwanted harassment and sexual abuse on a regular basis. This is difficult for many men to hear. What we have seen recently in those men responding #notallmen. I was one of them. Partly outraged for all good men but also partly defending myself I felt that was 'not fair'.When I saw how many women were crying out 'enough' I decided to consider the other point of view. What if I was wrong and now I was ignoring the message? It took me back to my enquiry around Black Lives Matters. I wanted then to know from black people what it was like. Not random people, actual friends of mine. People I knew and valued personally. Now it was time to ask women those same kinds of questions. I decided it was time to find out what women really want men to know about abuse and sexual harassment. This powerful conversation should be listened to by all men. It should be shared and discussed between groups of friends. As a bloke who likes a lot of banter and enjoys seeing, meeting, talking to women, this was a levelling conversation that really made me think differently. I don't believe this is about becoming boring, overly PC and not prepared to find the fun in everyday situations. It is though about what's acceptable and decent. It is about women being able to go about their lives with the same freedom and absence of fear that men are able to. If it's not ok about race then it should not be ok between genders.Please share this podcast and subscribe. It is vital that as many men as possible hear this important subject. https://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastJoin the Team Super Dad network for free access to our community and live events for modern Dads who want more.https://teamsuperdad.com/networkYou can watch and leave comments on the videos Live or the video replays...YouTubehttps://teamsuperdad.com/videoFacebookhttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadTeam Super DadTeam Super Dad gives Dads the tools and confidence to live their life they desire, not the life they feel stuck with. We transform Dads health, wealth and happiness so that they can feel great about themself, create more time with their family and enjoy life to the full.Find Out More About Team Super DadTeam Super Dad websitehttps://teamsuperdad.com/Work with a Dad Coach - Jonnie Jensenhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/dad-coaching/Join the Hero Academyhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/heroacademy/Join the Facebook grouphttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadSubscribe to the podcasthttps://podfollow.com/teamsuperdad/

Yikes. It's that time of the week...already....it's the Wrap Up!A sports induced week of lows for @jonniejensen and @adatingdad. Just for you though we are pushing through. Spring is here and the sun is out. We'll take our blessings where we can get them.On this week's Wrap Up...☘️ World sleep day - boudoir or messy pit?☘️ How big are your nipples?☘️ Apple Watch arrival☘️ Telethon's - Comic Relief in the UK☘️ Women vs Men - it's going off☘️ First times - drunk☘️ What to watch - Ted Lasso☘️ Hot in the 90's Countdown Special - Carol VordermanIf you enjoy the Wrap Up be sure to subscribe and review the podcasthttps://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastJoin the Team Super Dad network for free access to our community and live events for modern Dads who want more.https://teamsuperdad.com/networkYou can watch and leave comments on the videos Live or the video replays...YouTubehttps://teamsuperdad.com/videoFacebookhttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadTeam Super DadTeam Super Dad gives Dads the tools and confidence to live their life they desire, not the life they feel stuck with. We transform Dads health, wealth and happiness so that they can feel great about themself, create more time with their family and enjoy life to the full.Find Out More About Team Super DadTeam Super Dad websitehttps://teamsuperdad.com/Work with a Dad Coach - Jonnie Jensenhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/dad-coaching/Join the Hero Academyhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/heroacademy/Join the Facebook grouphttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadSubscribe to the podcasthttps://podfollow.com/teamsuperdad/

The principles of being a step-parent or a parent in a blended family are totally different from a normal family. I have been a step-son and a step-Dad. Whilst there can be love and affinity, a step-parent should not try to be a replacement for a biological parent. Rarely will this turn out well.Starting a new relationship after a divorce or separation is desirable for many men and women. Not surprisingly with children and ex-partners though it is rarely easy to make work. It is possible though to create an effective blended family - what you must not do is presume it is going to be easy.Tracy Poizner specialises in working with Step-Moms and Dads in new relationships. I had an amazing level of response from our first podcast cast together where we discussed Dads and how to talk effectively with your ex-wife and children. There simply wasn't time to do the subject of making blended families work so we decided to do this follow-up.You Are The Primary ParentWhat Dad says goes. At least in your house. What your children do when they are with their mother is not really anything you can control or even worry about. Sure if there are well-being and safety concerns but otherwise in most situations, you need to not sweat the small stuff.Back in your own home, the rules of the primary parent are what needs to come first. The step-parent is there to honour these but not get into conflict around them. Sure that can be tricky to navigate. In a well-working parent + step-parent set up though this will all be discussed. Yes, between you and your partner but also with the children. Let them know how it is all going to work and what is expected of them.You do not want your children taking advantage of the step-parent or abusing their role in the family, neither though do you want to place the step-parent in the position of policing your rules. Ultimately this will lead to conflict and resentment - between everyone.Important to note that the step-mom may also have her own children coming into your home. The reverse should work for her. She is the primary parent and you are there to support her, not be a replacement Daddy.Don't Expect A New Partner To Be MumA common mistake made by Dads entering into a new relationship is to expect their new partner to be a replacement Mum. This is basically the same point as above but from a different perspective. Some men will even seek out a new replacement with this goal in mind. It is a big mistake and will unlikely lead to a happy relationship between you and your new partner, or your children and her. Likely it will also rub your ex-partner up the wrong way. Sure to someone who is a natural homemaker they will want their home to be nice, meals will be cooked and maybe even a bedtime story or two will be enjoyed. It is vital though that just because you have a new woman in your life that you do not consider her an instant replacement for all the tasks that your children's Mother took on.You are still a single-parent - or better put, a co-parent. It is down to you to define and live that role. It is very different from the role of Dad in a relationship. It is way more hands-on. There are many many more responsibilities. You have to stay present to your guidelines, rules, values and expectations, and be consistent with them. You can't just go to work and expect step-Mom to take care of it all.As Tracy and I summarise towards the end, a successful step-parent will take on more of the form of a loving Aunt or supportive older sister. Respect this and enjoy it.Communication With Your Ex-PartnerNot every divorced Dad is on speaking terms with his ex. It doesn't take much to argue that it is better for your children that you are. Of course, being out of a hostile or abusive family set up is better for all but in most situations, your children still love you both. This should be nurtured and treated with respect. You may not like each other that much but put the children first. When you are creating a step-parent situation with a new partner and to whatever degree that leads to a blended family, then share this with your ex. Reasure her that you are not seeking to replace them as the children's mother. Be gracious in how you manage the situation and there will be more chance that is reciprocated back to you. Be the difference you want to see.If you enjoy this podcast then be sure to subscribe and leave a review...https://teamsuperdad.com/getpodcastFree Stuff and Links For Tracy Poizner:Divorced Dad survival guideOne For The Dad - Facebook GroupEssential Step Mom - websiteEssential Mom - podcastEssential Mom Facebook GroupTeam Super DadTeam Super Dad gives Dads the tools and confidence to live their life they desire, not the life they feel stuck with. We transform Dads health, wealth and happiness so that they can feel great about themself, create more time with their family and enjoy life to the full.Find Out More About Team Super DadTeam Super Dad websitehttps://teamsuperdad.com/Work with a Dad Coach - Jonnie Jensenhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/dad-coaching/Join the Hero Academyhttps://www.teamsuperdad.com/heroacademy/Join the Facebook grouphttp://facebook.com/groups/teamsuperdadSubscribe to the podcasthttps://podfollow.com/teamsuperdad/