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THERAPY: ChatGPT, false memories and therapy speak


From unqualified therapists planting false memories in vulnerable people and an obsession with labels to ‘therapy boasting’ on Hinge and the weaponisation of ‘therapy speak’, we deep-dive into the dark side of the therapy boom. Plus, what makes a good therapist, and can AI offer an accessible alternative to what has become a luxury? We hope you enjoy this special bonus hunnies, we’ll be back with our usual Thursday pop culture debrief tomorrow!


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Recs:

  • Dangerous Memories podcast 
  • My therapist told me Mum had abused me. She hadn’t, Times
  • The therapist who planted false memories, Pandora Sykes, Substack
  • How the language of therapy took over dating, NYT
  • Nobody has a personality anymore, Substack
  • OpenAI CEO Sam Altman warns users not to trust ChatGPT agent with sensitive or personal data, Decoder 
  • Chatbots Can Go Into a Delusional Spiral. Here’s How It Happens, NYT
  • He Had a Mental Breakdown Talking to ChatGPT. Then Police Killed Him, Rolling Stone
  • What does bad therapy actually look like? Stylist
  • Can AI therapists really be an alternative to human help? BBC






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