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State of Mind, State of Story: How Emotions Shape Us and Society
Episode 22: Harry Turner – State of Mind, State of Story: How Emotion Shapes Us & Society
Hello My Lovelies,
In this episode, I’m joined by Harry Turner, the Nocturnal Therapist, who bridges mental and spiritual wellness with deep insight and practical wisdom. Harry is a therapist, podcaster, and creator of the School of Outliers, as well as the podcasts, Is That So? and The Quiet Rebellion. He also runs a book club that fosters psychological and spiritual growth.
What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
- How starting with love and healing within yourself can ripple outward to impact communities and society.
- The difference between true power and narcissistic force, and how societies unconsciously elevate egocentric leaders.
- Understanding propaganda and manipulation through the lens of love and truth.
- How operating from compassion instead of condemnation opens space for personal and societal evolution.
- Practical ways to make a difference, from joining communities of growth to facing your own shadow and fears.
- The importance of courage in love, and how even small acts of integrity and truth create meaningful change.
Harry reminds us that the path of personal and spiritual evolution isn’t about perfection — it’s about facing ourselves, embodying love, and choosing truth over ego. He shares that mental health helps build a healthy ego, while spirituality guides us to transcend it, offering a roadmap for living with integrity, empathy, and courage.
"Mental health is concerned with creating a healthy ego whereas spirituality is geared towards transcending the ego altogether." - Harry Turner
Connect with Harry:
https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/
Book club:
https://www.becomeanoutlier.com/book-club
The Quiet Rebellion podcast on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/2fbrdSF2unDWKd23lVoSd5?si=dd9e84a844094dcd
IG: https://www.instagram.com/thenocturnaltherapist
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