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Marital Sex Isn’t Boring ft. William and Ayo Lawal

Season 3, Ep. 15

Welcome to another special episode of the Spit or Swallow podcast!



Today, Hausa Chocolate is joined by talented creatives, William and Ayo Lawal.

Together they discuss marriage, infidelity, assumptions and misconceptions about monogamous marriages, Madonna-Whore Complex, sexual safety, contraceptives, keeping sex spicy and so much more.



Themes: Long Term Relationships, Infidelity, Madonna-Whore Complex


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