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Why Isn't My Life Perfect Now I'm Sober?
Today is Vic's 7 Year Soberversary so we decided to take this opportunity to reflect.
Sadly, a mistake that too many of us make in sobriety, is to expect the very act of giving up alcohol to solve all of life's problems. This it cannot do...but it's a damn good place to start!
In today's episode, we aim to do something important. Something that no other podcast is doing. We want to shine a light on some of the disappointments that many of us still face in spite of our sobriety.
We are doing this not to unmotivated you but to prepare you. To paint the full picture of what sobriety is!
(Don't worry though - we will bring it all back together to not leave you feeling like a deflated balloon a week after your kids 3rd birthday party!)
Listen, enjoy, share and join Hame in thanking Vic for 7 years of inspiring and hilarious work as a sobriety advocate!
Show Notes:
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Vic's book is out! Go and get yourself a copy whilst you can...
Show Notes
Vic's book is out! Go and get yourself a copy whilst you can...
Buy Here on Audible and Ebook
and please give a review at www.goodreads.com
JOIN PATREON! and buy us a Cuppa so we can keep being awkward!
https://www.patreon.com/user?u=81897291
www.cuppa.community – The Free Social Network for the Sober and Sober Curious - Sober Events – Therapy – Sobriety Courses – Sober Groups and loads more.
@soberawkward @drunkmummysobermummy
@cuppa.community @hamishadamscairns @patreon @spotify
If you are struggling with your relationship with alcohol please reach out to your local doctor, a therapist, AA Group or just chat to a close friend. Don’t feel shame, just get the help you deserve. Contact us! If you have a topic you’d like us to cover then please email us -
vicandhamish@soberawkward.com
#soberawkward #soberawkwardpodcast #drunkmummysobermummy #cuppa.community #sober #sobermom #sobermummy #sobriety #soberaf #sobermovement #sobercurious #alcoholfree #mummybloggers #writersofinsta #soberfamily #greyareadrinking #addiction #soberissexy #soberwomen #sobermomtribe #sobrietyrocks #soberlifestyle #alcoholfreelife #wedorecover #sobernation #mumblog #mentalhealth #motherhood #wineoclock #sobermums #selfcare #womeninrecovery #sobercommunity #soberdads #1000sundays
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