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Are you Lying About Your Alcohol Consumption?

Season 8, Ep. 19

Liar, liar, pants on fire!

The words still sting decades later.

None of us want to be considered a liar and yet anyone that has ever drunk has probably also lied about it.

Why you are home after your curfew?

Why you kissed your friends boyfriend?

How you blew your finger off?

Sound familiar?!

Typically our lies surrounding alcohol start small. We lie to our parents about where we are going for the night or why their bottle of vodka is now weirdly full of water.

But these lies can grow. You might start lying to your friends and your partner. You might lie to your boss about your many 'sick days' and you might even end up lying to yourself about how bad your drinking has really gotten.

These lies can catch up on you and cost you everything. From relationships to careers to the trust of those you love.

Alcohol plays it part in these lies and Vic and Hame are going to unpack exactly why that is.

Enjoy!


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