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How to Speak to Teenagers about Alcohol with Paul Dillon

Season 9, Ep. 19

With schoolies fast approaching, you might be thinking about what you should say to your teenager about alcohol. NOBODY in Australia is more experienced on this topic than Paul Dillon. For the last three decades he has travelled around Australia (and the world!) visiting schools to teach them about the dangers of alcohol and drugs.

Many of us dread this conversation...for years...particularly if we were heavy drinkers ourselves. But Paul's approach is similar to ours on the podcast. He is not trying to tell kids to not drink or do drugs. He is instead equipping them to do so as safely as possible.

How should they act in an emergency?

Does eating bread or pulling a sickie sober you up?

And should you ever put a mate to sleep if they are hammered?

These are just some of the questions that Paul will answer over the course of our chat.

The truth is - he is a fountain of wisdom on the exact topic Vic and Hame know the least about and we are hugely grateful he sat down with us to help you all too!


Notes

Drug and Alcohol Research and Training (DARTA) website: https://darta.net.au/

Paul's Instagram: @dillonpauldarta

You can contact Shaun by emailing him at: spalmer@revivesobrietycoaching.com



Vic's book is out! Go and get yourself a copy whilst you can...

https://www.booktopia.com.au/a-thousand-wasted-sundays-victoria-vanstone/book/9780645757941.html

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