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Is Trauma The Core of Your Over Drinking and How Can We Cure It?
If you speak to anyone that has struggled with over drinking - you don't have to do much digging to uncover some trauma.
Trauma, sadly is inevitable, but how you react to it is one of the most important steps you will take in your sobriety.
Do you face up to the emotions or do you bury them in booze and drugs?
In today's episode Vic and Hame will share the traumas they have lived through both big and small and take a look at WHY this is such an important subject inside the world of sobriety.
Enjoy the episode!
Show Notes
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